uh...I'm gay.

Name or Nick Name : Phunkybrat
Country or City you are from: : Toronto
Your Age : 31
Your Gender :
What did you come out as? : Gay
What other words would you use to describe yourself? : creative, dedicated, intelligent
How old were you when you first realised your identity? : 12
How old were you when you first told someone? : 19
Did you plan it? If so, how? : The first time I came out it sort of just slipped out but when I officially came out (a few years later) I made sure I knew a) what I wanted to say
and, b) that this was something I wanted to do.
What made you choose that person to tell? : she was my best friend.
Can you remember exactly what you said? : uh...I'm gay.
How did you feel? : very emotional.
What was the person’s reaction? : she asked questions but for the most part was quiet and supportive.
What did they say? : She said that she supported and loved me and nothing would change between us.
What was your relationship with the person like afterwards? : the same.
What’s it like now? : I moved to a new city so we drifted apart.
If you’ve been outed unwillingly, who did it? : a co-worker...he just said it to my boss.
What happened? : I stopped talking to my coworker.
What were peoples’ reactions? : Well thank God for Human Resources...no could say anything...:P
If you’ve experienced homophobia etc, please give an example. : name calling in school.
Since coming out how out are you at school? : all_out
Since coming out, how “out” are you at work? : all_out
Since coming out, how “out” are you with family? : all_out
Since coming out, how “out” are you with your friends? : all_out
What does being out mean to you? : the freedom to be and share the best of myself. at the same time there's a responsiblity that I feel to help those who need support.
What differences, if any, did your cultural background make to your experience of coming out? : HUGE...I'm italian ... need I say more?
What does the concept of the closet mean to you? : a sadness...no allowing to share who you really are with close friends and family. Never knowing who you are fully. It's a prevention of self identity.
What advice would you give someone wanting to come out? : Keep this in mind...you can never unsay what's been said. Choose your words and don't use coming out as a weapon to hurt someone.
If you could do it all again, would you do it any differently? If so, how? : nope.

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Happy Diwali SMS

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This diwali tumko mile
Rathore ki Aim
Film stars ka Fame
Game show ka Jackpot
Hit film mein ek spot
Jadoo ki chhari
lots of crackers aur phuljhari
sab ka dher saara pyar aur dosti
and lots n lots of fun n masti
Wishing u a very HAPPY DIWALI!

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Laksh Divyani Ujalali Nisha Ghevuni Navi Umed,
navi asha Hotil purna manatil sarva Iccha,
Diwalichya Tumhala Khup Khup Shubheccha...
* * * Happy Diwali * * *

Diwali Jokes

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Diwali aai, masti chahi, rangi rangoli,
Diwali aai, masti chahi, rangi rangoli,
deep jalaye, Dhoom Dhadaka, chhoda phataka, jali Phuljadiyan,
Sabko Bhaye, "Happy Diwali"

Diwali SMS

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Ek Dua Mangte hai hum apne Bhagwan se...
Chahte hai Aapki Khushi Pure imaan se,
Sab Hasratein Puri Ho Aapki,
Aur Aap Muskaraye Dil-o-Jaan se!!
Happy Diwali and New Year that leads you on the road of Success.

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Ghar ghar main diya jale
To diwali mat samjho
Agar main tera peeche paroon
To mawali mat samjho.

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GREETING 4 all AirTel Team.
Today"s the `Festival of Lights" all o"er;
A joyful day for minds and hearts and souls;
And people throng the Temples to offer,
Prayers, resolving to take better roles.
And most of them are richly clad and clean,
And eat such dainty foods and sweets with mirth;
Whilst noisy crackers burst, their lights are seen,
It seems to be a happy day on Earth!
But are there not hearts woe-filled, very sad?
Denied of laughter, smiles for days;
Today"s the triumph of Good over bad;
But what about the wastage in much ways?
True joy is when you see someone else smile!
True charity gives joy in Heav"nly style.

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"aaj se aap ke yaha...dhan... ki barsat ho,
maa laxmi ka... vas... ho, sankatto ka.... nash... ho
har dil par aapka... raj... ho, unnati ka sar par... taj... ho, ghar me shanti ka.... vas... ho
* HAPPY DIWALI *

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Diwali Parva hai Khushio ka,
Ujalo ka, Laxmi ka.... Is Diwali Aapki Jindagi khushio se bhari ho,
Duniya ujalo se roshan ho, ghar par Maa Laxmi ka Aagman ho...
Happy Diwali

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Makki ki Roti, Nimbu ka Aachar,
Suraj Ki Kirne, Khushiyo ki Bahar,
Chand Ki Chandi, Apno ka Pyar,
Mubarak Ho Aapko, HOLI ka Tyohar

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Il y a un siècle, l’artisan fabriqué son outil, maintenant tout se remplace si ça ne marche plus, tout est jetable. Ce n’est plus un objet unique mais un objet en série.

Gérard Wajcman, psychanalyste, écrit « le 20°siècle aura était le siècle de l’objet, ou des objets, pluriels, multiples.  Ce trait singularise ce siècle de tous les autres siècles. » L’objet caractérise le 20°siècle et le 20°siècle se singularise à cause de cette importance de l’objet. La multiplicité des objets a caractérisé la société de consommation qui était présente comme un but désirable. Le but de chacun est d’acquérir de nombreux objets. L’intérêt pour l’objet aujourd’hui  reste assez remarquable.

L’objet a changé de mode d’existence depuis le 19°siècle, ce qui la transformé est la modernité. Le 18° et le 19° sont des époques tout à fait différentes. La première révolution a été l’abolition des privilèges. A l’époque la société été divisé en états, la noblesse, le clergé et le tiers état. Lorsque l’on abolit ces privilèges, tout le monde était au même niveau, donc tout le monde travaillait. Du coup la nation s’est enrichie, l’idéal bourgeois (faire des affaires) est devenu l’idéal social. La deuxième révolution a été l’industrialisation qui a explosé la productivité.

Le statut de l’objet va changer, il va doucement devenir un objet sans âme , c’est un objet utile, utilitaire.

Diwali SMS Jokes

Is diwali pe humari dua hai ki apka har sapnna pura ho,
duniya ke unche mukam apke ho,
shoharat ki bulandiyon par naam apka ho!
Wish u a very Happy Diwali!

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Sri ram ji aapke ghar sukh ki barsat karen, Dukhon ka naas karen. Prem ki phuljhari wa anar aapke ghar ko roshan kare. Roshni ke diye aapki jingagi me khusiya layen. Happy deepawali

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Is diwali pe humari dua hai ki apka har sapnna pura ho,
duniya ke unche mukam apke hon,
shoharat ki bulandiyon par naam apka ho!
Wish u a very Happy Diwali 2008!

Diwali SMS
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With my
1 heart
2 eyes
7 liter blood
206 bones
4.5 million red cells
60 trillion D N A"S...
All wishing you a very very
HAPPY DIWALI!

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Andhera hua dur raat ke saath
Nayi subha aayi diwali leke sath
Ab ankhne kholo dekho ek msg aayi hai
Diwali ki subh kamna sath layi hai.
” Happy Diwali”

Diwali SMS Jokes
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May the festival of lights be the harbinger of joy and prosperity. As the holy occasion of Diwali is here and the atmosphere is filled with the spirit of mirth and love, here's hoping this festival of beauty brings your way, bright sparkles of contentment, that stay with you through the days ahead.
Best wishes on Diwali and New year.

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May This Diwali be as bright as ever.
May this Diwali bring joy, health and wealth to you.
May the festival of lights brighten up you and your near and dear ones lives.
May this Diwali bring in u the most brightest and choicest happiness and love you have ever Wished for.
May this Diwali bring you the utmost in peace and prosperity.
May lights triumph over darkness.
May peace transcend the earth.
May the spirit of light illuminate the world.
May the light that we celebrate at Diwali show us the way and lead us together on the path of peace and social harmony
"WISH U A VERY HAPPY DIWALI"

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Hi All,
Wishing each one of you a very happy and prosperous deepawali. May this year brings you lots and lots of happiness in life and fulfill all your dreams.

As the candlelight flame,
Ur life may always be happiness' claim;
As the mountain high,
U move without sigh;
like the white linen flair,
Purity is always an affair;
As sunshine creates morning glory,
fragrance fills years as flory;
with the immaculate eternal smile,
attached to u mile after mile;
All darkness is far away,
As light is on its way;
Wish all of u a very happy diwali.

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This Diwali, may you be blessed with good fortune as long as Ganeshji's trunk, wealth and prosperity as big as his stomach, happiness as sweet as his ladoos and may your trouble be as small as his mouse.
Happy Diwali

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For this, is a special time when family
And friends get together,for fun.
Wishing laughter and fun to cheer your days,
In this festive season of diwali and always!!!!!!!!
“Happy Deepavali”

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This van is loaded with
LOVE n CARE,
Wishing U and your family
A HAPPY DIWALI

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With gleam of Diyas
And the Echo of the Chants
May Happiness and Contentment Fill Your life
Wishing you a very happy and prosperous Diwali!!

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Diwali Parva hai Khushio ka,
Ujalo ka, Laxmi ka.... Is Diwali Aapki Jindagi khushio se bhari ho,
Duniya ujalo se roshan ho, ghar par Maa Laxmi ka Aagman ho...
Happy Diwali

my best friend was a homophobe when i told her i was in love with her--she reacted with homophobia-based fears

Name or Nick Name : Bitsy
Country or City you are from: : Thunder Bay
Your Age : 23
Your Gender : female
What did you come out as? : Lesbian
What other words would you use to describe yourself? : label free
don't date guys
i like girls
How old were you when you first realised your identity? : 19
How old were you when you first told someone? : 19
Did you plan it? If so, how? : no its just sort of happened
What made you choose that person to tell? : i realized i had feelings for her
Can you remember exactly what you said? : not exactly, but i pretty much told her i was in love with her and wanted to be with her.  that i cared deeply for her and her daughter and wanted to always be there for them both--she was my bestest friend at the time
How did you feel? : surprised to discover that what i felt towards her was more than just friends
i also felt the intensity of my feelings for her as i was telling her i loved her
i felt hurt by her response
What was the person’s reaction? : she turned around and ran to a guy for 'love' instead
What did they say? : well, she told me she wasn't that way
and that she loved me but wasn't in love with me
What was your relationship with the person like afterwards? : um awkward, especially after I met and fell in love with another woman//then she was jealous!?!?!
What’s it like now? : um were not as close anymore, we still talk, but she isn't as uncomfortable with my sexuality now, she had a fling with another lesbian a while ago but she still doesn't want to be with me.
but at least I got the chance to show her what it could be like one night--until 6 in the morning!
If you’ve been outed unwillingly, who did it? : I remember that happened once--but I didn't really care so that's all I remember
What happened? : I don't even remember
What were peoples’ reactions? : who knows??
If you’ve experienced homophobia etc, please give an example. : my best friend was a homophobe when i told her i was in love with her--she reacted with homophobia-based fears
Since coming out how out are you at school? : only_friends
Since coming out, how “out” are you at work? : not_applicable
Since coming out, how “out” are you with family? : all_out
Since coming out, how “out” are you with your friends? : all_out
What does being out mean to you? : being out, to me, means not denying my orientation.  it means that if anyone asks, I will tell them.  I don't hide it, if i like a girl I talk about it with people.  If people ask me if I have a boyfriend, I tell them I don't date guys and that I like girls.  But as far as out loud and proud, not so much anymore.  I just won't deny it or hide it, but I don't broadcast it because I'm afraid with my chosen field, it may cause conflict or make the women I have to work with uncomfortable
What differences, if any, did your cultural background make to your experience of coming out? : um it was really easy to come out because I figured that at least hey i am part of the culture that is most accepting of gays and lesbians
What does the concept of the closet mean to you? : it means denying/hiding/or keeping your love life to yourself for whatever reason-many of which i believe are completely valid reasons to stay in the closet if thats what you want
What advice would you give someone wanting to come out? : start by telling those you trust and those who you want to know.  there might end up being people who you really don't want to know, like homophobes n haters etc
If you could do it all again, would you do it any differently? If so, how? : nah im out now i cant go back in :P

The spotlight turns to notebooks.

Das ist der Name des Events,

welches am 14. Oktober um 19 Uhr deutscher Ortszeit beginnen soll.

Es bleibt zu hoffen, dass Apple die MacBook-Preise tatsächlich auf unter 800€ drücken wird.

Und vielleicht bekommt die MacBook-Familie sogar ein neues Mitglied ?

we were watching ghost whisperer and i said without meaning to Jennifer love Hewitt is well fucking hot.

Name or Nick Name : evie
Country or City you are from: : england
Your Age : 21
Your Gender : female
What did you come out as? : Lesbian
What other words would you use to describe yourself? : funny sarcastic loud and tall lol
How old were you when you first realised your identity? : not sure i think bout 11 or 12
How old were you when you first told someone? : 19
Did you plan it? If so, how? : no just hanging out with my best mate and i said something that made her ask are you gay? i didn't feel the need to lie anymore
What made you choose that person to tell? : didnt choose but i guess i just trusted her enough to tell her.
Can you remember exactly what you said? : we were watching ghost whisperer and i said without meaning to Jennifer love Hewitt is well fucking hot.
How did you feel? : a hell of a lot better huge sense a relief
What was the person’s reaction? : shocked but fine with it
What did they say? : best mate: No fucking way! not bothered or anything but you are the last person a expected to be gay
What was your relationship with the person like afterwards? : still the same
What’s it like now? : not friends anymore
If you’ve been outed unwillingly, who did it? :
What happened? :
What were peoples’ reactions? :
If you’ve experienced homophobia etc, please give an example. :
Since coming out how out are you at school? : all_out
Since coming out, how “out” are you at work? : all_out
Since coming out, how “out” are you with family? : all_out
Since coming out, how “out” are you with your friends? : all_out
What does being out mean to you? : not having to lie and pretend anymore and being a lot more happy with things.
What differences, if any, did your cultural background make to your experience of coming out? : not really any
What does the concept of the closet mean to you? :
What advice would you give someone wanting to come out? :
If you could do it all again, would you do it any differently? If so, how? : id tell my mom first

"does she work?", yes i replied
"is she on drugs", no, i replied
mmmm...he pondered for a second...well she sounds a hell of a lot better than some of the boys you've dated!

Name or Nick Name : Karen
Country or City you are from: : Australia
Your Age : 31
Your Gender : female
What did you come out as? : Bi
What other words would you use to describe yourself? :
How old were you when you first realised your identity? : 13
How old were you when you first told someone? : 19
Did you plan it? If so, how? : I think it just started to manifest more and more in my experience that I was probably speaking a lot about it indirectly
What made you choose that person to tell? : trust
Can you remember exactly what you said? : Dad, I have a girl-friend!
How did you feel? : apprehension
What was the person’s reaction? : cool
What did they say? : "does she work?", yes i replied
"is she on drugs", no, i replied
mmmm...he pondered for a second...well she sounds a hell of a lot better than some of the boys you've dated!
What was your relationship with the person like afterwards? : close
What’s it like now? :
If you’ve been outed unwillingly, who did it? :
What happened? :
What were peoples’ reactions? :
If you’ve experienced homophobia etc, please give an example. : sometimes lesbian groups profess bi cool/trans cool/gay friendly etc but they often only want other lesbians around. I was a member of a group for 2 years when they decided to make it  exclusively lesbian. No bi's included, with a sorry if youre pissed off touch at the end. Its more bi-phobia and its common enough in the Sydney scene
Since coming out how out are you at school? : all_out
Since coming out, how “out” are you at work? : not_out
Since coming out, how “out” are you with family? : all_out
Since coming out, how “out” are you with your friends? : all_out
What does being out mean to you? : I think bi's can pass as both lesbian and straight depending on the partner they have at the time. Its important that you know who you.
What differences, if any, did your cultural background make to your experience of coming out? :
What does the concept of the closet mean to you? :
What advice would you give someone wanting to come out? : take them places/show them some clubs/groups etc...tell them all that I was not told about
If you could do it all again, would you do it any differently? If so, how? : nah!!

David Archuleta signs with Azoff Management

Oct 7, 2008, 09:59 PM | by Shirley Halperin

Categories: American Idol, Music, Music Biz

 David Archuleta has signed with Azoff Management, the career-launching (and often sustaining) music powerhouse that counts The Eagles, Christina Aguilera, Neil Diamond, and, most recently, Morrissey among its clients. But that doesn't mean young Archie, last season's American Idol runner-up, will forgo his dad's guidance from here on out. The reportedly difficult Jeff Archuleta will co-manage his son's music career along with Azoff's Jared Paul, who steers the pop ship for artists like Nick Lachey and New Kids on the Block.

19 Entertainment gets first dibs on Idol finalists for management, but the company apparently passed on Archuleta, while signing winner David Cook (a 19 representative declined to comment). Still, Archuleta remains on the 19 Recordings roster, and the company is intimately involved in overseeing his first album, which is due out Nov. 11. David Cook's debut will drop a week later.

Are this good news?... I don't know, but everyone seems to be spazzing about it. So maybe it is!
yay for david :D

Reality check babe.

The 20th: I'm bad at Blogging.

The 19th: Saya Melayu tipikal.

Saya suka bercakap/membebel seorang diri.

The 18th fact or fiction about me:

i haven't had a shot of ciroc in a very long time. i haven't gotten drunk in a very long time! haha what who am i?!

i-tin